What do i mean by this, well lets think about it for a minute, lets sayyour caught by your significant other in a compromising situation words are exchange you both go to your neutral corners later in the in day you decide to make the first move towards peace. Only to find their can be no peace because your partner has decided any peace or forgiveness must come with a laundry list admissions, concessions and a lifetime of pentence. I have a feeling some of you are probablysaying, well whats wrong with that, for the sake of peace some one has to do it. Your half right some one does, but lets examine that line of thinking for a moment, lets say once again theirs an incident, and your at fault your overcome with guilt you tell your self you'll never do it again you tell GOD you'll never do it again(or which eity you feel comfortable with) anyway you ask for forgivness, which in its self should be enough. But your very remorseful so you choose to confess to your partner heres where i
have a problem,the person whos confessing is trying to do the right
thing has now become the poster child for everthing bad that happens in the relationship,especially if its major that poor sap will never truly be forgivin. Because if they are then the spot light is taken off the partner who confessed and put on the partner who was confessed to, what does all this mean "simple" a relationship is a
two way street no one person is at fault when theirs an accident on
both sides of the street, when one person is always stepping forward to except blame even when their not totally at fault or when the fault is not even theirs, yeah proves their more adult and
mature then their partner, but that doesn't make it right. And thats
my problem with that line of thinking, people eventually get tired of taking the hits,getting called names, and accused of doing things
they have nomemory of, while the accuser suffers no penalties at
all this type of crap, has got to stop . SO GET UP ,STAND UP AND SAY NO MORE! - Jac Sabertooth
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