The smudge between life, and death

I often think about life, and death, I know by me saying that a lot of people will probably say why are you thinking about death, even though i said life, and death. Be that as it may, I dont think considering the possibilities about what happens when your life ends shouldn't be forbidden, or a topic not to be discussed,its what happens to every thing on this planet. Life,and death will always walk hand and handwe as human beings need to get used to that actuality, because its a fact ,and its real, let me give you a creative lineyour"How you view death, determines how you live your life, and how you live  life will reflect how you die". Some of you will say no it doesn't,... really are you sure think about it, and while your doing that i'll move on, we fear death in part because its an unknown factor in our lives, we dont talk about it except in a humorous way, jokes, and comedy skits about the grim reaper. But death like life is a grand transition into another plane of existance, (example) when a woman concieves a child that child exist for 9 months in her womb no matter how you want to look at it the child is for all intended purposes in another plane of existance, it knows nothing about our world, about our langauge and customs .When its born it enters a completely alien enviroment, an enviroment were gravity rules and the climate temperture changes from hot to cold, though the child is human, it can be consider a new life form, to our existance.O.k. let me get back to my base point we inhabit this plane of existance we live our lives for 50 to 80, or more years, and then leave through the process of death, what happen 1 minute after your heart, and brain expires no one knows for sure, where you go 5 minutes after it all takes place depends on what you've chosen to believe. But i'll say this it should not be looked upon as a fearful, sad affair it should be a joyful event simply because this person is transitioning from one delicate exsitance to one which can be considered immortal,and indesructable, no more physical pain but many who come face to face with a dying love one cry and cry, saying they can't go on, saying don't leave me. Imagine how that person must feel especially if its a parent how can they pass into the next plane of life peacefully if a love one is in pain, I believe this causes the dying person grief, making them torn between leaveing and staying, which i believe is what causes them to be tormented towards the very end. And thats wrong the dying person should not have to deal with any more pain, or anquish they have a lot of problem of their on , if the individual says i'm at peace, im happy, believe them and throw a party. Let them know you love them you'll miss them, but be at peace and its alright to go because you'll be alright, because you will be keep this in mind" Mourn their death, but don't live it" if you do you will have a difficult time getting out, one person died physically, theirs no need for another to die emotionally.-Jac